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Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Kasih Seorang Ayah




“Burung apa?”
“Burung murai.”
“Burung apa?”
“Burung murai.”
“Burung apa?”
“Burung murai.”

Demikian antara ungkapan sebuah iklan terkenal di kaca TV suatu masa dahulu yang mendapat perhatian rakyat Malaysia. Dialog yang menyentuh hati antara seorang anak dengan ayahnya ini sangat sesuai untuk didedikasikan kepada masyarakat sempena Hari Bapa. Mesej yang hendak disampaikan cukup jelas, mampu meruntun hati dan jiwa anak-anak yang sebahagiannya mungkin terlupa bagaimana lelaki bernama Bapa atau Ayah membesarkan mereka.

Sketsa bermula apabila seorang bapa yang uzur bertanya kepada anaknya, yang sudah berkerjaya dan berkeluarga, akan nama seekor burung yang dilihatnya. Anaknya menjawab lembut, “Itu burung murai, abah.”

Tiba-tiba ayahnya bertanya soalan yang sama dan dijawab lagi oleh anaknya. Kali keempat ayahnya bertanya, nada jawapan si anak mula berubah. “Abah... abah ni tak dengar atau sengaja buat-buat tak dengar? Kan saya dah beritahu tadi, itu burung murai.”

Sambil tersenyum si ayah menghulurkan diari milik Almarhum isterinya kepada si anak. “Nah, cuba baca apa yang Mak kau tulis.”

Si anak menyambut diari tersebut lalu membacanya. Ibunya mencoretkan bagaimana bahagianya dia melihat suaminya yang jarang berada di rumah melayan kerenah anak sulung mereka di halaman. Tiba-tiba si anak terlihat seekor anak burung murai terjatuh dari sarangnya. Dia pun menjerit memberitahu ayahnya lalu bertanya, “Abah, itu burung apa?” Ayahnya menjawab, “Burung murai, nak.”

“Burung apa?” tanya si anak lagi.
“Burung murai,” jawab si ayah.
“Burung apa?”
“Burung murai, sayang”

Si anak terus mengajukan soalan yang sama berulang-ulang kali, namun ayahnya tetap setia menjawab tanpa jemu.

Begitulah antara sketsa kasih sayang seorang ayah terhadap anaknya yang dipaparkan kepada kita. Kalau kasih ibu dikatakan membawa ke syurga, bagaimana pula kasih ayah? Ya, ada orang berkata, kasih ayah tetap hangat di mana-mana. Memang benar. Lantaran seorang ayah selalu dikaitkan dengan orang yang mencari rezeki dalam keluarga, setiap langkahnya untuk mendapatkan sesuap nasi pasti telah diniatkan sejak awal untuk menyara keluarganya, memberi makan isterinya dan membesarkan anak-anaknya, demi Allah.

Bayangkanlah dalam sebuah keluarga yang hanya si bapa bekerja, sudah tentulah bapa ini bertungkus-lumus membuat kerja itu dan ini, sepenuh masa dan separuh masa, sepenuh hati dan separuh mati, semata-mata untuk mendapatkan rezeki yang halal. Bayangkanlah para bapa yang ditugaskan di luar daerah atau luar negara untuk satu jangka masa yang lama. Perasaan rindu terhadap keluarga, rumahtangga dan kampung halaman terpaksa dipendamkan demi kerjaya. Semuanya dilakukan demi kasih sayangnya terhadap isteri dan anak-anak. Apatah lagi seorang bapa yang beriman, pasti besar impiannya untuk melihat anak-anak yang dididiknya berjaya menjadi insan yang soleh dan solehah. Pasti tinggi cita-citanya untuk menyaksikan zuriatnya menjadi pewaris yang memimpin dunia ini ke mercu kehidupan yang diredhai dan diberkati Ilahi.

Terima kasih Ayah, Abah, Apak, Papa, Abi, Bapak, Daddy..... Kami mendoakan semoga Allah memanjangkan umurmu. Biarpun dirimu telah pergi, nama dan kebaikanmu tetap hidup sepanjang usia. Kami mendoakan semoga Allah mengampuni dosamu dan mengasihanimu sebagaimana dirimu mengasihi kami sejak kami kecil sehingga sekarang.

Ya Allah, terimalah segala amalan kebaikan bapa kami dan tempatkanlah dia dalam kalangan orang-orang yang mendapat kasih sayang-Mu. Amin.

source : www.malaysiaharmoni.com

father love



George Strait A Father's Love Lyrics



I got sent home from school one day with a shiner on my eye
Fighting was against the rules and it didnt matter why
When Dad got home I told that story just like Id rehearsed
Then stood there on those trembling knees and waited for the worst

And he said, Let me tell you a secret, about a fathers love
A secret that my daddy said was just between us
He said daddies dont just love their children every now and then
It's a love without end, amen, its a love without end, amen

When I became a father in the spring of 81
There was no doubt that stubborn boy was just like my fathers son
And when I thought my patience had been tested to the end
I took my daddys secret and I passed it on to him

And I said, Let me tell you a secret, about a fathers love
A secret that my daddy said was just between us
I said daddies dont just love their children every now and then
It's a love without end, amen, its a love without end, amen

Last night I dreamed Id died and stood outside those pearly gates
When suddenly I realized there must be some mistake
If they know half the stuff I done theyll never let me in
Then somewhere from the other side I heard these words again

And they said, Let me tell you a secret, about a fathers love
A secret that my daddy said was just between us
You see daddies dont just love their children every now and then
It's a love without end, amen, its a love without end, amen

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Romantic Love Quotes


Other men said they have seen angels,
But I have seen thee
And thou art enough.
~ by G. Moore ~


I would fly you to the moon and back if you'll be . . . if you'll be my baby.
~ From a song by Savage Garden ~


I love you - those three words have my life in them.
~ by Alexandrea to Nicholas III ~


What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
~ by Ralph Waldo Emerson ~


I have been astonished that men could die martyrs for their religion -
I have shudder'd at it.
I shudder no more.
I could be martyr'd for my religion
Love is my religion
And I could die for that.
I could die for you.
~ by John Keats ~


I'd like to run away
From you,
But if you didn't come
And find me ...
I would die.
~ by Shirley Bassey ~


When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.
~ by Elizabeth Bowen (1899-1973) ~


The greatest thing you'll ever learn
Is to love and be loved in return.
~ From "Unforgettable with Love" by Natalie Cole


Soul meets soul on lover's lips.
~ by Percy Bysshe Shelly ~


I have found men who didn't know how to kiss.
I've always found time to teach them.
~ by Mae West ~


Three passions have governed my life:
The longings for love, the search for knowledge,
And unbearable pity for the suffering of [humankind].

Love brings ecstasy and relieves loneliness.
In the union of love I have seen
In a mystic miniature the prefiguring vision
Of the heavens that saints and poets have imagined.

With equal passion I have sought knowledge.
I have wished to understand the hearts of [people].
I have wished to know why the stars shine.

Love and knowledge led upwards to the heavens,
But always pity brought me back to earth;
Cries of pain reverberated in my heart
Of children in famine, of victims tortured
And of old people left helpless.
I long to alleviate the evil, but I cannot,
And I too suffer.

This has been my life; I found it worth living.

BERTRAND RUSSELL

Sunday, March 14, 2010

word of the days...

"Don't Regret loving a girl that dumbs you, Regret dumbing a girl that loved you"


♥ dont say goodbye
before u go~~~ it' ll drive me crazy, if i know~~~ jux go secretly
without let me know~~~ but never come back to me if u choose to go~~~
wish u good luck wherever u go~~~ ♥


"Love me without fear.Trust me without wondering.Love me without restrictions.Want me without demand.Accept me how I am.A love like that, will be eternal!"♥


“Tell me and I will forget.Show me and I will remember.Involve me and I will understand."




Monday, March 8, 2010


Science of Love - Cupid's Chemistry

Love; what is it, where does it come from and why?

What is Love ?


The Oxford English dictionary describes love as: an intense feeling

of deep fondness or affection for a person or thing and to fall

in love as: to develop a great love for. This may well be a basic

description of what love feels like, but why do we love, what is

passion, and why is intense desire between two people sometimes

called 'chemistry'?

There are, in fact, three distinct stages of love; each with their

own characteristic emotional profile and scientific explanation.

First is lust. Lust is driven by our sex hormones testosterone

and oestrogen. These hormones are what get us 'out on the pull'.

After lust comes attraction. This is the love-struck phase; the

time when we lose our appetite, can't sleep, and can't concentrate.

This is what we know as falling in love.

When we fall in love, our palms sweat, we can stutter and become

breathless, we can't think clearly and it feels like we have butterflies

in our stomachs. This is all due to surging brain chemicals called

monoamines. They are called dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin.

Norepinephrine and serotonin excite us, while dopamine makes us

feel happy. These love chemicals are controlled by a substance which

is also found in chocolate and in strawberries, called PEA or phenylethylamine

and it is PEA which controls the transition from lust to love. Similar

in structure to amphetamine, PEA too gives us that excitement we

crave. Indeed, some people become veritable love junkies. They need

a constant love high and go through life in a series of short relationships

which crumble when the initial chemical rush wanes. The love junky

has another problem too. We naturally build up a tolerance to these

chemicals eventually, so it takes more and more to produce that

much sought after high. Love junkies, if they stay married, are

likely to seek frequent affairs to fuel their need for the chemical

love high.

The Chemical Bond


The third stage of love is attachment - staying together. Attachment

takes over from the attraction stage and is the bond which keeps

couples together. After all, we couldn't possibly stay in the attraction

stage for ever - we would never get any work done for day dreaming.

Two different hormones are important during this phase of love.

They are oxytocin and vasopressin.

Oxytocin (the cuddling chemical) not only increases the bond between

lovers, but is also one of the chemicals responsible for contractions

during childbirth, milk expression when breastfeeding and is released

by both sexes during orgasm. The theory goes therefore, that the

more sex a couple have, the greater the bond between them. Nice

touch Mother Nature.

Vasopressin is the monogamy chemical. Only about three percent

of mammals are monogamous; mating and bonding with one partner for

life. Unfortunately, humans are not one of these naturally monogamous

animals. The prairie vole is however and it is this furry friend

which is responsible for our knowledge about vasopressin.

By isolating male voles before and after mating, scientists found

that life-long mating could be linked to the action of vasopressin.

Before mating, the vole is friendly to male and female voles alike.

Within 24 hours after mating, the male vole is hooked for life and

defends his partner jealously. The post-coital production of vasopressin

is responsible for this amorous behaviour. These little animals

also indulge in far more sex than is actually necessary to reproduce

and it was considered that the post-coital production of vasopressin

(and oxytocin) was responsible for their strong partnership bonds.

When given a compound to suppress the effect of vasopressin, the

prairie voles lose their devotion to each other and the males fail

to protect their ladies from the threat of other males. Perhaps,

therefore, we could learn something from the prairie vole. Drop

of vasopressin anybody?

Endorphins are also involved in the longevity of love. Endorphins

have the same pain-killing and pleasure-delivering properties as

their cousin, morphine, without the risk of overdose.

Choosing a Partner


Now, when it comes to choosing a partner, are we at the mercy of

our subconscious or do we make a more conscious decision?

It is to our advantage to choose a partner with the best possible

genes as these genes will be passed on to our children and ensure

they are healthy. Therefore, we naturally seek out somebody with

an immune system different to our own. Additionally, it is important

to find a mate with whose genes are also similar enough to our own

to confer a tried and tested immune system. Is this the reason we

fancy those who remind us of our parents perhaps? When we are attracted

to another person, it could be because we subconsciously like their

genes.


How do we do this? We seek and sniff out Mr Right!


Imagine an invisible overwhelming force which overpowers reason

and invites passion. A force which dictates where Cupid's arrow

will land. Cupid's chemistry. That's the power of pheromones. Pheromones

are 'smellprints', supposedly as unique as our fingerprints. Smell

is the most primitive of human senses, and pheromones, present in

underarm perspiration, are detected by a small organ composed of

a few small pits a few centimetres up the nose. The emotional reaction

they provoke can, quite literally, be a 'turn on'!

Therefore, next time you find chemistry with another person, you

really have!

- February 2006

(Claire McLoughlin is from the press and publications department of the Royal Society of Chemistry)





Tuesday, March 2, 2010

perasaan cinta

Cinta Itu Ibarat Sebuah Anak Panah
Sekali Ia terlepas, ia akan menancap kemana saja
Tidak tanganmu atau tanganku yang mampu mematahkan nya
Dia tetap disana, dan waktu tidak membuat berkarat

Kadang cinta tidak sepaham dengan logika
memilih waktu dan orang yang dapat untuk jatuh cinta
Kata orang cinta itu tidak mempunyai mata
tetapi seseorang mempunyai mata

bersama dengan dirimu
akan ku alami rasa bahagia
walaupun pasti lebih banyak rasa pahitnya

memang cinta tidak bermata
hebatnya cinta bisa butakan siapa saja
Cinta memang tak perduli rasa
Semuanya Bisa Jatuh Cinta